Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Count it all Joy

Parenting is hard work.
In fact, I think it is by far the most challenging job I have ever had.

Every word I speak matters.
Every action weighs in the balance.

My friend, Andie Davidson, writes Bible studies at Quiet Times for Kids.
We recently started The Peacemaker Study.

As we read through the six principles for peace, I was convicted at #1!

#1 - We must accept every trial, irritation, and conflict as a test from the Lord for our good and for God's glory, and we must give thanks in it!

EVERY trial - - for our good?
for God's glory.
and we must give thanks.

Ok, I get it.
I can apply that principle in the little trials of the day.


I know, it's hard to believe that these cute little kids test me daily as ...
They fight.
Spill yet another glass of juice.
Leave their toys strewn all over my house.
Unflushed toilets disgust me.
A trail of Legos ... just to be stepped on.

I have to choose to accept these annoyances as for my good ...
that is, every time, I have the opportunity to respond with grace.
I must allow the Holy Spirit to help me react in a way that brings glory to God.
And oh how I fall short -- daily, sometimes hourly.
I don't like those irritations very much - and I make sure to let my family know I don't.
Say what?  Did I just say that?  I can't believe I reacted like that.
But I do.

I'd be lying to say that I don't want ..
kids who never embarrass me at the grocery store
a quiet and peaceful home environment
a marriage without conflict
enough money to never have to worry
everything to work out just the way I hope
healing to be found in my deepest wounds.

Where this gets me, and I find it very hard to do, is in the bigger irritations of life.
I'm talking sins against me that are bigger than conflicts or trials.
In fact, they are offenses that have done damage and left marks.
I've written about my story here.

How do you take a horrific abuse and see it as
     "a test from the Lord for our good, and for His glory ... and give thanks in it"
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for His own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.  Once you were not a people, but now you are God's people; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.  ... Keep your conduct ... honorable, so that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day of visitation." 
1 Peter 2:9-12

As I allow my trials be for my good ... I proclaim his excellencies and and reflect His glory.

But I believe that the challenge in all this is that I bring glory to God when
... I accept trials as for my good
... and give thanks in them.

If I want my children to learn this principle, I have to live it.
I have to model what I want them to do.

"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.  And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing."  James 1:2-4

I have to count every trial, sin, pain, suffering as pure joy.
Joy.
Today, I have to count it ALL joy.
As I do, He gets all the glory.

1 comment:

  1. Hard and rewarding. Hang in there, and know that you only get those little loves for such a short time...

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